What Were They Thinking

Parents pick prayer over docs; girl dies

By ROBERT IMRIE

Police are investigating an 11-year-old girl’s death from an undiagnosed, treatable form of diabetes after her parents chose to pray for her rather than take her to a doctor.An autopsy showed Madeline Neumann died Sunday of diabetic ketoacidosis, a condition that left too little insulin in her body, Everest Metro Police Chief Dan Vergin said.

She had probably been ill for about a month, suffering symptoms such as nausea, vomiting, excessive thirst, loss of appetite and weakness, the chief said Wednesday, noting that he expects to complete the investigation by Friday and forward the results to the district attorney.

The girl’s mother, Leilani Neumann, said that she and her family believe in the Bible and that healing comes from God, but that they do not belong to an organized religion or faith, are not fanatics and have nothing against doctors.

She insisted her youngest child, a wiry girl known to wear her straight brown hair in a ponytail, was in good health until recently.

“We just noticed a tiredness within the past two weeks,” she said Wednesday. “And then just the day before and that day (she died), it suddenly just went to a more serious situation. We stayed fast in prayer then. We believed that she would recover. We saw signs that to us, it looked like she was recovering.”

Her daughter - who hadn’t seen a doctor since she got some shots as a 3-year-old, according to Vergin - had no fever and there was warmth in her body, she said.

The girl’s father, Dale Neumann, a former police officer, said he started CPR “as soon as the breath of life left” his daughter’s body.

Family members elsewhere called authorities to seek help for the girl.

“My sister-in-law, she’s very religious, she believes in faith instead of doctors …,” the girl’s aunt told a sheriff’s dispatcher Sunday afternoon in a call from California. “And she called my mother-in-law today … and she explained to us that she believes her daughter’s in a coma now and she’s relying on faith.”

The dispatcher got more information from the caller and asked whether an ambulance should be sent.

“Please,” the woman replied. “I mean, she’s refusing. She’s going to fight it. … We’ve been trying to get her to take her to the hospital for a week, a few days now.”

The aunt called back with more information on the family’s location, emergency logs show. Family friends also made a 911 call from the home. Police and paramedics arrived within minutes and immediately called for an ambulance that took her to a hospital.

But less than an hour after authorities reached the home, Madeline - a bright student who left public school for home schooling this semester - was declared dead.

She is survived by her parents and three older siblings.

“We are remaining strong for our children,” Leilani Neumann said. “Only our faith in God is giving us strength at this time.”

The Neumanns said they moved from California to a modern, middle-class home in woodsy Weston, just outside Wassau in central Wisconsin, about two years ago to open a coffee shop and be closer to other relatives. A basketball hoop is set up in the driveway.

Leilani Neumann said she and her husband are not worried about the investigation because “our lives are in God’s hands. We know we did not do anything criminal. We know we did the best for our daughter we knew how to do.”PRAYER DEATH

I believe in the power of prayer, but God also gives us the good sense to seek medical care when necessary. Another child’s life lost, for an illness that is treatable. 

Posted in Kids, News, Parenting.

12 Responses to “What Were They Thinking”

  1. jinjin213 Says:

    I saw this on the elevator news screen today and was totally saddened…prayer is a beautiful thing but it should not override common sense and the natural duties of a parent…to love and protect …not even sure how these people were able to live with themselves knowing that help was just a doctor’s visit away…poor child she never had a chance.

  2. Ms. Ki Says:

    She was a beautiful little girl too. That’s an actual pic of her. I just can’t believe it. I wouldn’t think twice about my children the care they needed and saying a word of prayer.

  3. jinjin213 Says:

    I’m really pretty pissed about this incident …i mean where were the relatives? the teachers? all those people who ask you six million questions at the hospital if your child busts her darn lip innocently????

  4. Ms. Ki Says:

    Exactly. It doesn’t appear there was much intervention. Unless they weren’t taking her to a doctor and discussing her condition with school administrators.

  5. jinjin213 Says:

    I just can’t understand their point of view…sort of wish I could make sense of it…i can’t even talk about this its sending chills up my spine…i would do anything for my little girl…just don’t get it…

  6. kingston10 Says:

    An old indian proverb..”Pray to god but row away from the rocks”

  7. jinjin213 Says:

    LOVE THAT! its oh so true…

  8. Ms. Ki Says:

    Amen Kingston, Amen.

  9. lyaries19 Says:

    So sad…were they trying to test God?

  10. Ms. Ki Says:

    I don’t think they were trying to test God. I believe they were trying to solely rely on God and no one else.

  11. lyaries19 Says:

    You should always rely on God but God also placed people in our life so that we can rely on them too…

  12. Ms. Ki Says:

    The use of common sense.

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